Tuesday, April 14, 2009

The Captivating Tale of Grey Gardens

Jessica Lange and Drew Barrymore portray Big Edie and Little Edie Bouvier Beale in the upcoming HBO film.

I'll admit that I had not heard of Edith Bouvier Beale and her daughter, also named Edie until recently. However, I have been completely fascinated from the moment that I first learned about them. Big Edie and Little Edie, as they were known, were the aunt and first cousin of Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis. They are remembered for the deeply eccentric lives they led. Originally Park Avenue socialites, the pair eventually retreated to their summer home in East Hampton, where they lived out the latter parts of their lives in complete squalor and poverty. The story of how these two women, who shared a fierce mother-daughter bond went from being the crème de la crème of New York Society to social misfits oblivious to the outside world is both fascinating and heartbreaking.


I am sure you have heard that Drew Barrymore and Jessica Lange are starring in "Grey Gardens", the film by Michael Sucsy about the two Edies, which debuts this Saturday evening on HBO. Watch the trailer here.



The film is an extension of the cult classic documentary of the same name. Shot by Albert and David Maysles in 1975, the documentary "tells the tale of Edith Bouvier Beale and her daughter "Little Edie," a pair of misfits who lived for decades at Grey Gardens in East Hampton, Long Island. Beginning with newspaper headlines screaming about the estate's unsanitary condition and its condemnation by the Suffolk County Health Department (The New York Post stated that the two were 'living in a garbage-ridden, filthy 28-room house with 8 cats, fleas, cobwebs and no running water'), the movie indulges the viewer with the offbeat and spellbinding lives of mother and daughter Beale" according to a 1998 article from Screen Review.

The documentary was shot when the Edies were in the midst of their dire situation. They were out of money and lived in a world that was all their own. They were fiercely co-dependent, though Little Edie carried some resentment towards her mother's selfishness in wanting to keep her by her side forever. She was never able to fully see her dreams through and Big Edie seemed glad about it. Not because she wanted her daughter to fail, but because she didn't want her anywhere in the world other than by her side. Albert and David Maysles filmed in the house and grounds at Grey Gardens, but the Edies, who were willing to share their story, wanted little screen time.


I have only seen clips of the documentary on YouTube (I have the full version in my queue on Netflix), but what I have seen is at once amusing, disturbing, and heart wrenching. Clearly, neither of the Edies was completely well, psychologically speaking. In contrast, the HBO film explores both the terrible living conditions and eyebrow-raising behavior of mother and daughter Beale as well as the forty years leading up to it, in an attempt to figure out how two women, who seemed to have it all, could end up with absolutely nothing but each other.



Little Edie and Big Edie
Little Edie was once a beautiful debutante full of promise. She lived at the Barbizon Hotel for Women from 1947-1952 (click here for images). She claimed to have dated J.Paul Getty and to have been engaged to Joe Kennedy, Jr. Later in life, she would dress herself in eccentric costumes and headdresses to disguise her alopecia.

Little Edie left her fledgling career as an actress, model, and dancer and returned to Grey Gardens in order to care for her aging mother.

An image of Grey Gardens at the peak of its splendor in the 1920s.

"It was truly a gray garden. The soft gray of the dunes, cement walls and sea mists gave us our color scheme as well as our name... nepeta, stachys, and pinks... clipped bunches of santolina, lavender and rosemary made gray mounds here and there. Only flowers in pale colors were allowed inside the walls, yet the effect was far from insipid....I close my eyes and sense again the scent of those wild roses, the caress of the hot sun on our backs as we sauntered to and fro from our bath and lazy mornings on the beach."—Anna Gilman Hill, former owner of Grey Gardens in her book Forty Years of Gardening


Grey Gardens was originally built in 1894, but Edith Beale and her husband did not purchase the home until 1928. This set, designed by Kalina Ivanov for the HBO movie, depicts the home in its full glory in 1936, the same year that Little Edie made her debut at the Pierre Hotel.


Grey Gardens at the pinnacle of its squalor in the 1970s, as depicted in the HBO film.


On October 22, 1971, inspectors from the Suffolk County Health Department raided the house and discovered that it violated every known building regulation. The house was overrun by an army of feral cats, racoons, and garbage. It didn't even have running water. This of course, became a national scandal since the Edies were relatives of Jackie O who paid $32,000 to have the house cleaned, a new furnace and plumbing system installed, and to have more 1,000 bags of garbage taken away.

Drew Barrymore, as Little Edie on July 29, 1952, the day she returned to Grey Gardens in East Hampton to care for her mother.

In a letter written to her nephew, Little Edie claimed: "When Grandfather died (in 1948), he left $65,000 in a trust. Jack B. ("Black Jack" Bouvier, Big Edie’s brother and Wall Street broker) had only one objective — to grab the Beale trust fund to invest for his daughters (Jackie and Lee) and he did. He was supposed to take care of Mother." Since things did not work out as planned, Big Edie only received $300 per month and the duo reportedly stayed afloat for as long as they did by selling off their Tiffany items piece by piece.

The dining room designed by Kalina Ivanov for the HBO film is here depicted as it was in 1936. Notice the fabulous red bamboo chairs.

The same dining room, shown in the movie as it appeared in 1971.


In 1979, Ben Bradlee, former Washington Post Executive Editor and his wife, author and journalist, Sally Quinn, purchased Grey Gardens directly from Little Edie for $220,000, which was an absolute steal, even then. It is estimated to be worth in the tens of millions now.

The photo above and those below are of Grey Gardens in its present state. Quinn and Bradlee fully restored the home. Evidently, buyers were lining up at its door when Little Edie decided to sell since such a price on Lily Pond Lane was unheard of. However, Edie felt that the house truly belonged to Quinn and surely appreciated her promise not to have the estate torn down, despite the fact that it smelled of thirty years of being overrun by cats and raccoons.

W Magazine recently published a very interesting interview with Sally Quinn about Grey Gardens.

When asked about her first experience seeing the house in the article, Quinn said "We got to the house and my real-estate agent said, 'I will do anything to sell the house, but I will not go inside.' So she waited outside. Well, you had to have flea collars on for one thing. There were 30 cats in there and the stench was beyond belief. And Little Edie opened the door—her mother had died two years earlier—and apparently everyone had made offers because she was asking $220,000 for the house."
An excerpt from the W interview:

"At that time, 1979, was that considered a good price?
That was considered nothing, even then! I mean $220,000 on Lily Pond Lane? But everybody else wanted to tear the house down, which was the obvious thing to do. So I walked in and I said, 'This is the most beautiful house I've ever seen.' You can't believe what shambles it was in. And she said, 'It's yours.' Up to then, she'd refused to sell it to anybody else. But she said, 'I know that this house belongs to you. You're the person who should have this house.' And then she did this little pirouette in the hall and said, 'You see? All it needs is a coat of paint!' So I bought it on the spot. It was one of these magical experiences where everything went right. We had a great contractor, a great architect, and we moved in the following summer."

Quinn did not ask Edie where she was headed after she purchased Grey Gardens from her. Quinn recounts "I said to her, you have a choice. You can leave the house broom clean, which was laughable, that means you take everything out of the house, everything, everything, everything and leave it broom clean OR you leave it exactly the way it is and you leave everything in the house. And she said 'I'm just walking out the door.' And she walked out the door. And when we closed on the house in November I went upstairs to the attic and it was a treasure trove. I was in such a state of ecstasy and exhilaration I was hyperventilating. I started smoking again. I found a trunk of letters which I just recently had an archivist go through and do a lot of the history of the time and get the letters in order." Though Quinn was unaware at the time, Edie moved into a small rental cottage in Southampton. Later, she moved to a studio apartment on 62nd Street in Manhattan where she lived from 1980 until 1983. Eventually, she settled in Bal Harbor, Florida in 1997 where she remained until her death in 2002 at the age of 84.


The lush gardens currently found at the estate are reminiscent of its original splendor.

A Magical Place
When asked by W Magazine if she still feels the presence of the Beales at Grey Gardens, given its "potent history and personality", she says "Oh yeah. I feel them there. In the movie, Big Edie says, "I could never leave Grey Gardens. This is a magical place." It is a magical place so I don't feel the sadness there. I feel the magic they felt that kept them there. There's something that makes you feel good being in the house."

The staircase and foyer were the heart of Grey Gardens and one of the main centers of activity in the Masyles' 1975 documentary. Here, it is shown in its current state after having been brought back to life by Bradlee and Quinn.


The living room, shown here, has been restored and furnished with cozy cottage furnishings.

I suppose that part of the reason that I am so enraptured by this story is the fact that I am fascinated by houses. I especially love grand, old homes and always say that "If walls could talk, I would sit and listen intently for hours." It just so happens that Grey Gardens has a remarkable story to tell. Even more remarkable, though, are the larger than life Big Edie and Little Edie, whose relationship with one another is both puzzling and mesmerizing. If you are as captivated by this extraordinarily eccentric pair as I am, be sure to visit Grey Gardens News, which features a treasure trove of information on the subject. And of course, don't forget to tune in to HBO this saturday evening for the premiere of Grey Gardens.

In the meantime, check out this mesmerizing HBO video, entitled "Grey Gardens: Then & Now", which compares and contrasts the HBO film to the 1975 documentary.



42 comments:

Yoli said...

Thank you for sharing this, I have been fascinated with this house for a long time.

Lauren said...

What an interesting/ amazing post!! You had me captivated!! I hadn't heard of them & can't wait to see the movie!!
xoxo

Vanessa said...

I've been waiting for the new movie to come out for so long, but I don't have HBO! So annoying...

Paloma {La Dolce Vita} said...

Yoli, isn't it a remarkable story?

Thank you, Lauren! :) I have been hooked since I first learned about this.

Vanessa, do you have Netflix? If so, you can add it to your queue for when it is released as a DVD.

Sweet Nothings said...

What a great post!!

on another note, I thought drew looked fab in her black and white striped dress on letterman the oter day!

livingwithstyle said...

Amazing! What a great job they did on this house! can't wait to see the movie!

M.K. said...

fascinating post.

coco+kelley said...

ohhh - i can't wait to see it. this was a wonderful piece paloma! i'm off to read the W article too!! i think the lives led in houses are so interesting as well... if walls could talk indeed!

Sarah said...

I'll certainly be adding this to our Netflix Que. Thanks for posting! I love Jessica Lange!

Rachel said...

Oh wow, this is truly a wonderful/sad story. I am off to read more about it. Thanks for the post, I had not heard about this documentary before!

SGM said...

I just heard Drew Barrymore on Fresh Air this morning, and was dying to know more about Little Edie and the house today. Thank you so much! Excellent post.

Lucinda said...

The documentary is long but good so I am eager to hear more of the back story in this HBO film. How dead on did they get their looks? And Jean Tripplehorn as Jackie was a fabulous choice.

LindsB said...

What a beautiful house now, its amazing to think what it has been through- I cant wait to see the movie now, thanks for sharing!

A Gift Wrapped Life said...

So glad you dropped in today and happy you found me as well. Wonderful post for you today...can't wait to see the movie though not sure if HBO will show in Canada as well, if not I may have to park myself at a American home somewhere! You did lots of great backgound. I had a post lined up on this as well, but not nearly as well-researched I have to admit.

mary said...

wonderful post - can't wait

thanks for doing the homework

bandelle said...

This is such a informative post. If only I had HBO! Little Edie certainly was beautiful and Grey Gardens looks phenomenal now.

Kylie

Porchlight Interiors said...

This was one of the most interesting posts I have ever read! Wow! Now I would love to see the movie. Tracey xx

Jill said...

Fabulously thorough post...thanks so much for all of the additional info.

Haven and Home said...

Wow, what an amazing story. I had heard different parts of it but I was glued to reading through this whole post. Thanks for sharing!

Sarah Danielle: Jeune Marie said...

I can't wait to see this! Thanks for all of the detailed info, I have been curious about this story for a while!

katiedid said...

Wonderful Post! I had seen a preview for this movie the other day and said I have GOT to see this! Drew said she would be in the make-up chair for 5-7 hours at a time. Beautiful house! Thanks!

mia said...

Such an interesting post! I confess I didn't know who they were either before I read an interview with Drew Barrymore not long ago.
They remind me a little bit about Marchesa Luisa Casati - not well either I'm sure.

Mia

Patricia Gray said...

I watched this movie (the original documentary) on the weekend and I have to say that I found it quite depressing. I am still trying to figure out what all the buzz around the lives of these two tragic characters is all about and why the fascination with them??? I will have to catch the new movie and see how they compare, as the set desgns for the new movie certainly look like they have glamourized the sad state of the house and of their lives. Maybe the retelling of their lives will give us permission to be wildly eccentric and disturbed and make it alright even fashionable??
Patricia

Paloma {La Dolce Vita} said...

Thanks for your comment, Patricia. I think the fascination stems from the fierce mother-daughter bond, wildly eccentric personalities, and the way in which these two women could go from one extreme to the next. The HBO movie shows the 40 years leading up to the 1975 documentary which showed the Beales in such a sad state. This explains the more glamorous sets.


Thanks to everyone for your wonderful comments! I am so glad that you enjoyed this post and that the story of the Beales has been intriguing for you as well. xoxo

Things That Inspire said...

What an amazing post. I am looking forward to seeing the movie!

Anonymous said...

Excellent post, but they were not Kennedy's ("Little Edie Bouvier Kennedy"). Jackie Bouvier (maiden name) married into the Kennedy's.

Melanie said...

Congratulations on being featured for the Washington Post (where I found your blog)!

Thanks for sharing this. The pictures and story are amazing.

Paloma {La Dolce Vita} said...

Oops, Anon! That was a total typo. I know that they were not Kennedy's, they were Beales. Big Edie Bouvier was the sister of Jackie Kennedy's father. Thanks for the heads up.

Anonymous said...

I learned of your blog thanks to this morning's Washington Post, tore out the link and brought it to work with me so I could check it out. It's everything everyone before me has said, and more! I love La Dolce Vita and now will be a regular reader. Thank you very much!
Cindy Lawson
Alexandria, VA

Paloma {La Dolce Vita} said...

Hi Cindy,
Thank you so much for your sweet comment. You put a big smile on my face! I am glad that you enjoyed the post and that you like the blog. I hope that you will keep reading. Thanks again!

xo,
Paloma

ALL THE BEST said...

Fantastic post!

the girL said...

absolutely fascinating

stewart and james said...

what a brilliant post! i am going to read the new W now and can't wait for the movie to premiere!

Dagny @ Beautiful Living said...

Paloma, THANK YOU for an absolutely amazing post! Grey Gardens has been one of mye favorite documentaries for a really long time. When you finish watching it the first time, you just want to see it again. Their relationship is just so complicated. I love both the house (in the documentary the potential was just screaming!) and little Edie's style. She looks fabulous! And she was such a stunning girl when she was younger.

My Decor Style said...

I watched Grey Gardens last night. You are right, it ws fascinating and disturbing at the same time. I can't stop thinking about it. It was so sad. They were so disconnected from reality and I fear always were. I have been researching more about their story and have found that the mother began "seducing" her daughter at a very early age. Little Edie never had a chance at a notmal life. Very sad and sick.

corine said...

I ate this post up! (here via Shelly Beson) I want to see the show so badly now. I guess it's fascinating to see the fall of someone who has everything we dream of.

MYGREYGARDENS said...

I was told right after filming of the HBO film wrapped up in the fall of 2007, that I would be blown away at the last scene, where Edie sings Tea For Two at Reno Sweeny, and I was ! I had supplied the film company with the only recording in existence of Edie singing the tune, only this wasn't from her actual performance at the club, but rather her singing it just for me at one of my many visits to Grey Gardens. Drew sang it exactly, phrase for phrase as I have it on tape. Edie and I actually met that night at Reno Sweeny, and my relationship with Grey Gardens has now spanned over 3 decades. For our complete review, check out our blog at MyGreyGardens.com (HBO film review by Robb Brawn & Lee Arboreen), and be sure to check our Youtube video uploaded 4/18/09 the same day as the HBO film release. Click
GREY GARDENS PROMO to view the video

Anonymous said...

Do you know if the house is available to view now or is it still privately owned and only viewable from the street? They really should open rooms up for viewing.

this blessed nest said...

commenting so long after you have written this amazing piece. i don't even know how i happened upon it.

as everyone has stated...such a facinating story & house. months after the documentary was released, i still find the story so captivating. i remember my mother telling me about this when i was so young, and that they were jackie o's relatives. i loved hearing her stories of the kennedys, etc. but, i always told my mom, that i didn't believe her. years later, she called me up after it aired on HBO and said, "See, I knew what I was talking about!"

the current story of grey gardens & pics you have posted are wonderful. seeing it now, back to its splendor is truly a marvelous sight. thanks so much!

Lorna said...

You have created a masterful post here.


~Lorna
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EricInMiami said...

just rented the movie with drew barrymore and your blog was the best source of information regarding these 2 very colorful and memorable characters.

Thank you!

Simply A-Me said...

Here is an awesome video of renovation before and after pics of Grey Gardens with some pictures of the girls.

Truly amazing.

http://youtu.be/ssNa9g3rH7w